Of course, today is Mother’s Day. It’s probably a happy day for most people. However, I can’t help but thinking that it’s got to be incredibly sad for some people, too. I normally go with my mom to Mass, because it makes her happy. When I was younger, they had all the moms stand up and everyone clapped for them. I remember thinking that clapping during Mass was a big deal. What I didn’t realize, though, were the people silently shedding tears over the recent loss of a mother, the realization that they could no longer celebrate Mother’s Day in the traditional sense. I also didn’t realize, as an ignorant kid, that not all women who didn’t have children weren’t necessarily happy about that arrangement. Now, though, I understand. It’s got to be heart-wrenching for some and very hard. I’ve noticed in recent years, the priest has all the expectant mothers stand, then the existing mothers and, finally, everyone who ever had a mother. Obviously, this ends up with everyone standing and giving everyone else a round of applause. I won’t go into how the people must feel who had absent or negligent mothers. I won’t pretend to understand how awful that must be.
With the knowledge out there that I’m sure Mother’s Day isn’t great for all people, I’d like to share with you my mom, because I think she is pretty great. Here she is. Isn’t she cute?

My mom has lots of different names. Of course, I call her Mom. She’s got a few variations on her first name. Her grandsons will probably end up calling her Grandma. My favorite name for her, though, is one of her own choosing – Aunt Pitty Pat. When my two younger second-cousins (or is it first cousins once-removed? JANEY!?) were born she decided that’s what they should call her. It’s caught on, and now lots of people call her that. My boyfriend in high school did. It’s part of her email address. It’s who she is. Of course, if you don’t know, it’s from Gone With the Wind. If you’ve seen the movie, don’t assume that my mom is like Scarlet’s Aunt Pitty Pat. I think she could weather Sherman’s Burning of Atlanta if she had her rosary. But the characterization sort of fits, too!
My mom and I are a lot alike, but she’s SO much nicer than I am. She might think uncharitable thoughts about someone, but she’d never say them out loud (she might agree when I blurt them out, though!). She’s way shorter than me; I grew taller than her when I was about nine years old. She loves the color yellow and collects all things yellow. She loves to read and is addicted to computer games. She gives them up as a sacrifice for Lent, each year. Mom also loves naps, especially in her hammock. She loves creme brulee. She loves Kentucky basketball and always becomes attached to the players, hating to see them leave at the end of their careers. Above all, though, Mom loves her family – her husband, her daughters, her eight brothers and sisters, their spouses, their children, their children’s children, etc. She loves her friends like they are family. She’s just an all-around loving person. That’s why I made this for her. I think it captures her sentimentality and also shows her accomplishments – being a great wife and mother and a wonderful person.

Thanks, Mom. Just for being you.